Thursday, July 16, 2009
Universal Brotherhood Day
This year, when the Lodge is in its 128th year of holding its meetings, we are proud to have not a few but over half a doxen members who have been serving Lodge for over 25 years, with a couple of them being around for over 40years. We are also proud to have a few father-son members to the likes of W.Bro.S.B. Agarwal and Bro.Sumit Agarwal, V.W.Bro.H.R.Debara and W.Bro.P.H.Debara. In fact, V.W.Bro. Debara and W.Bro.P.H.Debara are 3rd and 4th generation Freemasons. In fact W.Bro. P.H.Debara was initiated as a Lewis at the age of 18 and is one of the youngest master in the Lodge Star of Agra's history. He is a devout mason, travelling the length of the country to attend regional and grand lodge meetings. He has a plethora of of knowledge on Freemasonry, both from first hand and also through his interaction during his travels as a Freemason. He was recently appointed the ARGM (Assistant Regional Grand Master) in the Northern Regional Grand Lodge, earning him the nick name from us as the PHD (his initials) in Freemasonry.
Overall, this Brotherhood Day celebrations were just like former years, with games for ladies and guests with the gents enjoying the casual conversations over drinks. The highlight of the evening, obviously, was V.W.Bro. G.G.Mathur cutting his birthday cake, thronged by his family and friends from the Lodge.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Jaywalking: Politically incorrect.
Recently, the beaten down BJP has been quite and licking its wounds after being defeated in two elections, back to back. It is the BSP vs Congress battle that is taking center stage right now. CBI is ready to file the charge sheet against Mayawati for disproportionate assest case from 2003. Imagine that Maywati was not even the CM at the time. Now with the construction of a few thousand crores worth of parks, where would the real income of Ms Mayawati stand???
She is trying everything to make life tough for her political rivals, no wait, that is the UP Govt. without any political agenda. From lathicharging (baton charging) the peacful protestors in Amethi, to arresting the UP Congress chief, for commenting against women and communal harmony (she is woman, mind you). It is all holds barred in the political arena today.
As one of my friend says, "I would run for politics, but I would be killed or threatened to withdraw the next day" That is the problem today. There are people who want to make changes, and know how to bring them about. But the current crop of Leaders are relentless to allow anyone who is not their son, nephew, grandson, even grand nephew to take the lead and actually do something.
I don't like any particular party too much, but the move to get one of India Inc.'s honchos, out of Infosys and into the government's ambitious unique id project was really steal. It really signalled that this time the PM is in control and he wants a corporate approach to governance than the psuedo-socialist approach that left out the needy and helped the greedy.
If NREGS is to achieve its actual target, it should employ people to build roads and infrastructure to help develop the country, and not just have the landless farmers dig soil endlessly, just so that he does some work for the day's pay. Most people in the urban India don't even know that NREGS only asks the labours to dig soil, most of the time, to no constructive result.
We are being told is that inflation is negative. While I used to get pulses at an average of about Rs.45-50 in the beginging of the year, today the rates are almost touching 100 bucks. And they say that with the monsoon in its present state, don't expect it to get any cheaper soon. The dal-roti idom is dieing, forget about housing and clothing. If a person can't feed himself, how do you expect them to work to earn their meals, and living. Although India Inc. is happy and hiring again, but India Inc is only about 15% of the 1.25 billion people in this country.
Lastly, I must agree with Shekhar Kapoor (of Mr. India fame). We must do something soon or loose even Water, Gods gift to man, in a country that worships nature as God; God save us all.
Sunday, May 10, 2009
River side!
I am talking about a place in Lucknow, even with my ignorance, I do not know the name of... some of my friends call it Marine Drive, I call it a getaway.
As you know, I have been in love with this city, and it is following up on my love for the city, that I am writing about one of my favourite places in Lucknow. I have been going to this place since I had a bike and was allowed to go out on my own.
I remember going out in the evening, on pretence of some work or the other, and sitting by the river side, watching the sun set, or the moon play hide n seek with the clouds, pondering over so many things...
I still go there often enough, with friends, just to catch up on the new and reminiscence over the 'good-old-days'. I remember taking my friends there, having some take away with us, having it there. The wind, the scene of a city coming to grips with its Nawabi past and the fast pace of the demanding world. It was my place to go and philosophise, or to vent my anger at people/ life in general.
Sometimes, I would go there, just because I missed the place. It is one place where I could go and not think of anything else in the world. That is the feeling I lacked anywhere else in the city/ or the country for that matter; having lived in atleast 3 cities in my small, significant life.
Today, when I go there, we reflect upon the changes in the city, and how nothing seems the same. I have heard so many people from out of town complain: "पहले आप नही पहले हम और सिर्फ़ हम" is the culture now. That is not my bother, as the traditionalist I am, I still practice that culture, and hope that people learn by example, if not by tradition.
The people who have lived in Lucknow would know what, and where I am talking about. The place in the recent past has beared the brunt of the state government's "development projects." Though, I am not complaining about the place, as it has grown from beautiful to marvelous in the last year. The polution from the stone polishing has put Lucknow on the Indian map as one of the top polluted cities. I can't complain, I still love the city, and the place.
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Politcal Jaywalk
Recent spate of politics in India, the largest democracy, and US, the erstwhile free country, has left us wondering WTF! In India, the shoe-gate was toned down, and the religious hate speech by the "other Gandhi" Varun made prime time news. As two widows from the same family fight it out to best their own sons' political carrier, the main agenda is left out in the summer sun, sweating. Let me point out a few things off the top of my mind:
1. Varun would make a better leader anyday than Rahul. Rahul is meticulous and divisive in his ways; agreed. But recent Varun saga puts him in a different league. He knows the pulse of the people more than Rahul does. For those who heard Rahul speak during the no-confidence motion in July last year, did he not remind you of a certain aged RSS champion from the opposition, Atal Bihari Vajpayee. It only goes to show that he is not at all ready to step out of his mother's shadow.
2. Sonia Gandhi uses the shadow of Manmohan Singh to do her work as the alternate PMO. What else would justify her choosing an a champion of reforms who has little to with politics even after 5 years as the PM than a first time MLA. Lets hope she would dare the right wing patriots to wear the crown herself; if she comes to power that is.
3. P.Chidambram, the home minister of our country had a Reebok hearld at him, or was it a Nike. The point is that it wasn't him to be blamed for the what CBI did. It was his predecessor if anyone was to be blamed for it. Still, I condemn what happened. The shoe was not thrown at a person, but at the Home Minister of India. It is the saddest thing to happen, and yet, somehow it is an expression of demcracy. The fact that he guy was let off without any charges is also commendable whereas the Bush shoer got convicted and is in prison.
4. If the leaders of today would stop playing regional politics and conentrate more on the economy, or development and upliftment of people. I mean, is there a single man made monument that they can boast of, built after independence? Mamta Banerjee made it about her personally to seige the Tata Motors plant in West Bengal. While states jumped at the project when it shut down, numerous other projects still hang in balance. Posco plant in Orissa, Dadri power project in UP are just 2 examples.
5. The world has great expectations from Obama, but am more skeptical of him than before he got elected. He is a new world president, but he is no better than some of our own politicians at turning around and going back on promises. Opening up Bush era torcher cases against the officials is just one thing on top of my mind. His approval rating is dropping like the Dow Jones did around his election. I think such a young leader of a country like the US is not right, where people start to live their life when they are 40, he still seems to have some way to go on world politics though.
6. I thought political mud slinging was getting too messy in India with even film stars getting their hands dirty until I read about the French President doing it to fellow world leaders. I don't know what kind of leverage he hopes to derive there, but it is in bad taste all the same.
I would write about more such futalities of politics, but I have to stick to my Indian Idealism too (pun unintended).
So go out and vote, and let me know how it turns out.
Friday, April 10, 2009
The Brotherhood of men
I came to know about Freemasonry through an article I read about it in the newspaper and ever since then have been intrigued by it. I researched about it on the internet a lot as well. Then I came to know my uncle, who lives next door, is a memeber and when I joined the my first job, I asked him to refer me. That is how I came to know, learn and be a Free Mason.
When I first walked into a Freemason Lodge, it was a feeling of elation, a step on the mysterious side. The initiation was more ritualistic and an experience. Instead of just walking into the room and being welcomed with open arms, I was prepared mentally, and physically, to be a mason. But after I crossed the line, and since then, I have felt as much a part of the whole group as a decade old memeber. I never thought that Freemasons had such warmth in their hearts. I feeling that I had always echoed, and also why I felt that I belonged here. I was the youngest memeber and also the only bachelor there. (I remember getting an invite to a memebers' son's wedding which amicably said: "Mrs. & Mr. Jatin Mehrotra") Before I knew it, I was among people, a brother, with people of my grandfather's age and even older, listening, and even life experiences (telling dirty jokes at times too).
I knew what I was there for, and why I wanted to be there, but I also realieased that it wasn't just about the charity which is at the heart of our society. We do a lot of charity work; no doubts there. The other reason, and I might be inviting a little ire here, is that all men need their space. It is also probably one of the reason that Freemasonry has survived for so many centuries. Men need their own space too, period.
Freemasonry is not just a society, although it is often referred as one. In India, it is registered as a charitable trust. The membership of the Lodge always welcome people from all walks of life. Many American Presidents have been members, including the first. Indian kings, Nawabs and now SC Judges, industrialists and sportsmen. They have all been members. We never solicit membership, or ask any friends and family to join. A man must come of his own free will. Its like our notice board says - To be one, Ask one.
I have an incident to recount for every meeting that I have attended, wether in Agra, or anywhere else. That would be in later posts. For now, it would be sufficient to say that it is a different world to be on the other side, and it is an experience different from all other.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Nostalgia!
I did make some very good friends in grads, but every year my core group seemed to change. For the first year it was just 4 guys. The second year it was 4 different guys and 4 girls. The final year saw yet another 3 guys and 2 girls. Today, I am in touch with just 2 people, one of them is my business partner, the other is a very good friend, who looked me up on a social networking sites(and to think I used to curse them) after 4 yrs. of college.
From grads. to PG, there was not a single common friend who joined me, though I did carry a relationship forward with one of my professors. She was a part-time lecturer at the time in my new college and we used to debate about the faculty in the new college. It was a precarious situation where I was gossiping about my teachers, with my teacher.
I still have friends that I made in my second college, and I hold them so close to my heart today. Some have withered into memories, some are still on my FB/Orkut friends list. But it is not the same. In college you'd know about the birthdays in the morning of the day. Today, Orkut alerts you 15days in advance. Thats technology for you. Even though you may not know what is happening in your collegues' life, you still wish send him a scrap wishing him happy birthday.
Those treats at the cafeteria have also vanished, or perhaps morphed into fancy luncheons in restaurants. The cake is ordered, not homemade. And so is life.
We so want to be back in college but we never would be the same person if it weren't for those very days. Personally, I am nostalgic about those moments, but I wouldn't give them up or go back and relive them. They are best left untouched, and unscathed for eternity.
Friday, March 27, 2009
Jaywalking
To me, most of my ideas come while I am walking. I often walk to the market with no reason, just looking at people, shopping, street vendors trying to peddle me stuff. But I hardly even hear a word, much less if someone were to call me from across the street. It is my way of mulling over things. I disconnect from my body and venture into a different plane, where I am alone, gliding on the ice of my thoughts, with bare feet. I slide and shift from one foot to another just like my thoughts. During my stint in Delhi, the walk from the office and to my room was as long too, but I never could be disconnected as I can in Lucknow. There, I had to be on my feet, being part of the crowd, and scared to be a target of some insusceptible pick-pocket. But back in Lucknow, I can be alone with my thoughts again. It has embraced me like its lover, welcoming me back.
Some people think over a cup of coffee, some over the newspaper. I have heard people thinking in the toilet as well, but I fail to understand the ideas that they must be getting in there.
Although I have been taking my walks for many years, it is not to say that I have not faced its perils as well. What perils, you may ask, can come from a walk. Well, I was hit by a biker and woke up in the hospital feeling a little woozy and a few teeth lighter. Since then, my sub conscious mind has undergone several rounds of training, not to mention stricter regulation as well. Today, I walk more on the terrace, or the courtyard, and I still fail to understand how the recommended 15 minutes of walk can be avoided by anyone during the day.
I still sometimes take the risks while crossing the street, and often so in life. Just one thing keeping me sane, the fact that I guess keeps all of us sane and going as well, at least in India. That we all live for someone else, and not just selfishly for just ourselves.
Just a thought!
Monday, March 23, 2009
Uniquely Lucknow
I remember it was in my college days that we started to hang out at Barista, going through Love Lane. I didn't even realise that we were Ganjing until my mom asked me where I was going, and when I answered, she said, "Oh, Ganjing!" I could only manage a smile as I was going to meet a girl friend, and although it was nothing special, but still I had the guilty look on my face.
I still remember hogging paani batashas in a dozen flavours at Love lane. The name Love Lane also has an interesting story behind it. Apparantely, it was the hot spot for a generation gone by as well. There was this norm that girls would walk on one side of the lane and the guys on the other. No comments were passed or any misbehaviour, just a quite glance. If you wanted to meet someone, you waited for her to come around and maybe talked to her. I can't imagine a better social setup even today. But it won't work anymore today. Even though I am still skeptical of the reality behind it, it is still a wonderful idea.
Then there is Janpath, the vibrant part of Ganj. A walk alone gives you an idea of the latest fashion trends and accessories in town. Although it is one of the most expensive places to shop, it does have some of the cheap places as well. You can get used novels and books at a discounted price. The eatery on top of the basement is a good place to hangout as well but I can't say the same about its food. For the food, you need to head to Royal Cafe Moti Mahal. Royal cafe chaat corner is quite famous and I have had friends and relatives asking for its famous basket chaat. We used to go to Modern Book Stall to fetch ET for dad. It is still the place I head for cards and magazines.
Universal book sellers has something to offer everyone. I remember how we used to get all excited about our new school books just so we could go there and shop for them. Didi used to bring us along to get her novels at Janpath and the addition ice cream treat at Chedilal.
At the other end of the strip is Halwasia. We'd shop for uniforms there at Malik uncles' shop. Even today you get some great T-shirts at the shops there.
Today, I go to Ganj to shop only, to Janpath for a gift, and to Halwasia for a visit to the bank. We still do hang out at Barista though. The coffee is still the same but the faces that make it have changed. While walking down Love lane today, I saw the same old faces, trying to sell the same "New" stuff. The shoppers have changed. It was like the people were not from Lucknow. I remember not a single visit to Ganj went by when we didn't see someone we knew. Even my friend from school who runs a shop in Janpath was not at the shop. I felt so scared, change always is, but it is also necessary.
It was ineviteable I guess; Lucknow is moving towards the mall culture. But I know this as well, for anyone who has grown up in Lucknow, ganjing is something uniquely Lucknow and will remain so for the time to come.
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Indian Idealism
In India, wherever you go, you hear a common voice. Something must be done, this must be done, that must be done. No one ever seems to know what and how to do it. This is why we place great emphasis on our archaic system. The system would take care of fixing things. We fail to realise that the system if the system would have worked then we wouldn't be complaining. The idealism is ingrained in each one of us since childhood. You should learn to 'adjust.' We don't know most of our laws, which are mostly sufficient if implemented properly, and still want to get ahead in the line just by greasing up the system. It is something that I simply fail to understand. People don't want women to go to pubs and drink but want equality for them. Why you may ask; because it is not the ideal thing to do. We shout culture when we find something changing in our lives and yet fail to keep in mind that Khajurao and Kamasutra is as much our legacy as Aryabhatt and Raman. I guess we are all patients of convenient amnesia. We are ready to watch beauty contests and pay for porn, but we would not send our daughter to join a beauty contest; "She needs to learn cooking." I mean come on, wake up and smell the pasta.
We are living in an era where it doesn't matter who you are, you can have what you aspire to be. But no one wants to come into politics and clean it up. It is still hard to make people do things, take responsibility. I remember long ques at polling stations when I would go with my as a kid. Last election I voted there hardly 20 odd people in all the booths at the station. People used to love exercising their franchise of freedom. But today, we have accepted our condition and are happy with the status-quo. I don't understand why and how can people curse the government and our leaders when we allow incompetent people who can't even write their own names to lead us. I am not saying that all our leaders are pathetic, or education is necessary. But I don't believe that an educated man is inconsiderate.
Contrary to this, people in other countries don't adjust. But Idealism I am talking about is much smaller and thus more; the sum of parts makes it larger. We say the right things just because it is the right thing, the I-Deal thing to say. Not because we believe in it, it is what suits us, what allows us to spend our small lives insignificantly. "घर छोटे हैं इसलिए दिल बड़े होने का दावा करते हैं." The line is from a recent movie. Although the storytelling was not up to the mark, but the idea was right. We easily shift sides as per convenience. We may not get ahead but we are jealous of our friends who do. We would not say it, but we are, because it is not the right thing to do। At least our foreign counterparts accept their emotions and express them too. But you shouldn't say things that your friends don't want to hear, it is not right.
I think we need one more reality show to find out who is the most IDEAL person i.e. Indian Ideal! Mind you it might end up looking for the perfect person instead of the Idealism I am talking about here. Mainly because it is not the Ideal thing to do.
(Overheard at the corner tea stall)
Friday, March 20, 2009
Weather Games!
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Spring Summer 2009
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Chandler Bing
The accompanying pic I created towards the end of college where you might be asking where is Monica. I am still asking the same question!
Confession: I have watched friends ever since I can remember. At first, I was scolded for all the adult humour in the sitcom as I used to watch it at home. The at work, I would try to make the 7pm deadline home just to watch an episode that I have seen a million times. Although it represents a generation before our own, in a country not so much so, but everyone I know still watches it. People have come to appreciate it more today as the times have changed. What seemed like a metro phoenomenon a decade ago is happening in small towns as well. People hang out at the end of the day, just to be with friends rather than girlfriends/boyfriends. This brings me back to myself and Chandler Bing. Chandler ends up marrying his best friends' sister. Now I don't mean to scare any of my friends, but I guess that is my deliverance. I am not going the marriage way, not now, not for the forseeable future. Guess I am more Like Chandler bing than I thought...
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Holi Hai...
It is the Holi week. This means that colours are on every one's mind. It did not hit me that it was Holi until Tuesday evening. I had planned to buy colours in the evening. That is when I went to Aminabad to get them. For those who are not from Lucknow, Aminabad is Lucknow's answer to all things jolly. You name it and you can buy it in Aminabad.
Aminabad is also famous for its celebration of all the festivals; from Deepawali to Holi, from Eid to Good Friday. So, as I was in Aminabad, it was beautifully lit up. In fact it was a double celebration time. It was Barawafat on Tuesday as well. So while shopkeepers made moolah, even the roadside vendors were making a kill. There wasn't enough room to even walk.
Then there was the usual competition for the best मंडप. The theme being Holi, there were kids sitting inside dressed as Radha Krishna. I could only imagine kids sitting there all day like a statue. Even the politicians had chipped in by sponsoring one of the blaring "deejai" on the road side.
There was complete anarchy at the paint shops to buy colour, as we Indians, more so Lucknowites, believe in leaving the best for last. So, after a dual for 20 minutes, and a few shirt buttons later, I emerged from the crowd, a little red and pink (from all the colour), but successful nevertheless.
Sunday, March 8, 2009
C2C, another flop?
Although, we had visited the place for a late lunch, but the ambience was still good. It was like one of those hot May afternoons. It is getting so hot these days, and its still March. The decor was done wonderfully in white leather chairs and sofas. Another thing that you notice immediately when you enter the place is that there is glass everywhere. Almost all the walls and have mirrors, and I mean in a good way.
The menu is a mix of Thai, Oriental (Chinease), and Italian. Of course there is Indian and continental too for those who don't want to experiment. The service is good, and some of my inquries about the dishes were answered with patience and in detail. By the time our order arrived, we were really starving because it took about 25min. for our order of fried rice and deluxe vegetable manchurian to arrive. The food was at only as good, but you expect a lot more, with the prices you are paying.
Overall, I'd give it 6 on 10 for the ambience and variety on the menu. But this place does drive home the point that Lucknow is ready for such uber class restaurants. It started out with Barbecue Nation, the their was Yoko Sizzlers, now C2C. But my favourite remains Barbeque.